A Private Christian Marriage Retreat
For Marriages in Crisis

Marriage is not exactly what everyone wishes it would be, which is a culmination of a fairy tale wedding as portrayed in the movies.  Many would say that reality sinks in, right after that honeymoon high. Before you know it, your marriage has turned into something that you least expected, and couldn’t help but be filled with regret.

But just like anything, staying married is a choice where both parties commit to the union and do whatever it takes to preserve it.  However, that is often easier said than done. Sometimes, you will experience problems along the way that can be too difficult to come to grips with, especially if you started off looking at your relationship through rose-colored lenses.

There are many reasons why couples would want to join a intensive marriage counseling retreats.  It could be a long-overdue vacation for both of you. After all, you may have realized that you rarely get to talk, let alone see each other anymore given that you lead busy careers.  

A Christian retreat is not only for marriages that are starting to show cracks from within; it is for couples who want to keep the fire alive in their relationship as well.  It is also for those who have yet to take the plunge or have just gotten married.

Your goal as a couple is to stay together through thick or thin.  Even for richer or poorer, as you have solemnly promised in your wedding vows.  But then you wonder if you have prepared enough just as you would for your career.  A Christian retreat is the marriage boot camp you didn’t think you needed which can add boost in any relationship.  Many people join the marriage bandwagon believing love is all they need to make it successful. They could not be any more wrong in this mindset.  

Any couple who’s made it past their golden anniversary would say that a healthy and lasting marriage is no easy feat.  It needs maintenance just as would with your car or appliance. With the help of regular counseling that you can get from joining a Christian retreat, you keep your relationship on track and resolve any issues before they become irreparable.  

Learning what staying married is all about

Do you know what they say about you becoming one once you’re married?  It’s no longer I, me, and myself, and you will start to use the pronoun “We” even if your spouse is not around.  While that is essentially the case, it’s another to invade your partner’s personal space. When this happens, hurt, disrespect, and anger often ensue.  

The idea of blurring the boundaries disregards mutual respect.  Marriage puts you in a situation that should help each person grow as an individual while maintaining a special spot in his or her life.  You can serve your partner to the point that you may be willing to sacrifice your interests for the sake of your spouse.  

Honoring God in your relationship

God helps identify who your partner in life should be.  When you finally meet this person, you should honor your commitment by doing everything you can to stay together.  Marriage is the covenant you have made with God during your wedding ceremony.  

During a marriage retreat, you will be enlightened by biblical teachings that address any concerns you might have in your union.  It helps remind you of what brought you together in the first place and value the love that you have for each other. 

Dealing with problems and conflicts

Because there is no preparatory school for marriage, a Christian marriage intensive retreat will be your guiding light whenever you think your marriage is going nowhere.  It will provide you with enough education based on research and actual experiences that equip you with the right tools to handle your married life with strength.

Recurring problems between a couple can cause permanent damage to the relationship if left unchecked.  You might have to keep your critical mindset at bay and offer more understanding towards your spouse. You will learn how to accept and embrace the flaws while at the same time, making adjustments and compromises to arrive at a mutually shared decision. 

Nurturing intimacy

The Christian retreat can tap into your innermost thoughts to elevate your manifestations of love with physical and emotional intimacy.  This emotional connection is so crucial that without it, a marriage will not likely survive at all. For some married couples, being emotionally attached comes first. A marriage counseling will then help you release your best self.  

Some activities will nurture this aspect during the session.  When there is complete trust, the real point of showing love to your partner is enhanced further.  The physical manifestation becomes a powerfully positive experience that can result in better communication and emotional fulfillment.

Time alone together

For couples who are attending to small children or have become caught up in their hectic work schedules, their time with one another is compromised.  During the retreat, you have the time to focus on your partner without distractions. It provides an opportunity to reconnect and rekindle the love that was shared when they first entered a commitment.  

It is common for couples to put in the necessary work only when there is a problem within the marriage.  It’s vital to make that effort to keep the romance alive. The retreat fosters an appreciation for each other which couples tend to take for granted, especially after many years of marriage.

You Are Not Alone

Yes, things can be better.  But thanks to our highly trained counselors at Relationship Rescue Academy, it is comforting to know that you and your partner are not alone in your relationship struggles.  Many others go through the same problems who also seek help from marriage counselors. It lends the right methods for couples to achieve a stronger bond and healing from past wounds.

Overall, there is nothing to lose when you consider attending a Christian retreat, only everything to gain.