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There are many different types of couple therapy options out there, that range all the way from internet-based therapy to intensive couples’ retreats. Couples retreats are a unique mix of therapy and vacation. They can be a great way for couples to begin to work through their issues and begin to enjoy spending time together again.

They allow you to learn all about yourself, and your partner in a controlled, safe environment. This enables you to be vulnerable with each other, thus improving your relationship and emotional connection. If you think a marriage retreat might be the next step in your relationship, then look no further. This article will help you to decide if a retreat is right for you.

5 Questions to Ask Yourself

Am I willing to change?

Marriage retreats are all about compromise. Before investing the time and money into a marriage retreat, it is pertinent to first ask whether making some changes to yourself is something you would be willing to do. If you aren’t willing to make the necessary changes to save your relationship, then you may want to question the point of it. After all, if you thought your marriage was worth saving, you’d make the changes necessary, right?

Do I believe this will work?

One of the main aspects of successful couples’ therapy, and marriage retreats, is the belief that it will work. By believing in the therapy, you are giving it validity and strength. This links to whether or not you think your marriage can be saved too. If you are having a lot of very significant troubles, you may have lost the belief that a marriage retreat can save you. Try to have faith in the outcome. Put your belief into the retreat, give it your all, that is the only way it will work. It is all down to you and your partner, there is no magic fix.

What do I want my marriage to look like?

This could be something you discuss with your partner before embarking on your marriage retreat. It is important that you both have a clear image of what you would like your marriage to be. Otherwise, you are working towards different things and that can only lead to issues. Talk about your expectations from your spouse, as well as expectations of yourself in a marriage. Now that you have created a picture of your ideal marriage, it will be much easier to work towards it.

What do I want to get out of the marriage retreat?

All marriage retreats are different, so you will need to research ahead of time which one would work best for you. There are loads of options out there, so you will find one that meets your needs no problem. Maybe you want to renew your intimacy, or learn to communicate better. Often people attend marriage retreats because their marriage is just ‘fine’, and they want it to be special. Whatever you wish to get out of a couples retreat needs to be communicated with the staff there. They are there to help you achieve your marriage goals, and by sharing these with the staff, you are far more likely to achieve them.

What do I want the retreat to be?

It was briefly mentioned in the previous point that there are many types of marriage retreats out there. Ones where you stay on site, ones where you stay in a hotel. Ones where you are in groups of other people, ones where you are alone. Ones abroad, ones close to home. There are plenty to choose from. Choosing the right one for you can be such a special experience between you and your partner. It can be exciting to know that you are beginning to work on your marriage in such a fun way.

What is next?

If you now feel like a marriage retreat is right for you, all that’s left to do is take to the internet. Find the one that is right for you and your partner. Remember, it is not a holiday. A marriage retreat is a way to work on your relationship, with the added bonus of an idyllic location.

Go into the experience with an open-mind and take away all that you can. Marriage counselors are very wise people, they view your marriage in a way you are not able to. They will not judge you, but will give you plenty of opportunities to work on yourself and your relationship.

Once your marriage retreat is booked and written in the calendar. Start thinking with your partner about what your main aims will be. What do you both want to get from the retreat. Stay focused on what matters, and you’ll have done your very best.

In Summary…

Marriage retreats can be such a fantastic, unique way to work on your marriage. If both parties are invested and believe it will work, all that is left to do is follow the counselor’s advice and enjoy the trip. Keep your hearts and minds open and you’ll reap the benefits.